When we are attracted to someone, but they don’t love us back, or, it can be heartbreaking.
What’s important to keep sight of, is your own value.
So often we think if we just try harder, or are more available, or love better, or look nicer or whatever it is, that the object of our affection will suddenly look up and notice us with new eyes. Unfortunately, this isn’t true, and when we’re in this smitten, infatuated, love blind state, we can’t always see it.
When someone loves you and wants to be with you, if he or she is available, he or she will make it very clear. There isn’t any guessing, or wondering, or analyzing every move. There isn't any danger or drama or uncertainty.
There will be direct attraction, direct connection, and a very clear moving forward.
If you’re infatuated with someone, and you’re not seeing this type of movement, either that person is unavailable, or not interested in you.
This doesn’t mean you should try harder, or change even one little hair on your head.
Just accept that this person is not your soul mate, and move on. Your soul mate will be absolutely clear with his/her availability, desire and intention.
Wait for this.
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