If you are interested in having tantric experiences, or in having transcendent intimacy, you don’t need a lot of partners, or a new partner.
This is not to say you can’t have different partners; that's up to you, and is determined by your stage of life, your commitment to others, and by your own particular understanding of love at this time.
However, in order to expand yourself sexual self, all you need to do is to become fully present with one person.
The thing is; it’s very difficult to become fully present with another person.
It’s about real, raw intimacy: where you show up without your mask, without your cool, without your reputation as player or lover or whatever it is.
You show up, and you don’t just take off your clothes. You take off your skin.
In this way, true sexual intimacy is a profound spiritual experience: you will find that time exists differently, energy shifts in a new way, when you open yourself to another and the other opens to you in this profound, deep, real way.
If you seek transcendence in sex, try showing up fully as yourself, no barriers, no walls, no resistance, just you.
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