In all your lifetimes, you’re not going to learn anything bigger than this: we’re here for love.

You can try to kick love away.
You can reject it when it shows up.
You can hate.
You can run away and hide when it gets too complicated.
You can live in fear and isolation, never letting another in.
You can think you’re better than another.
You can think you’re less than another.

All of these Misbeliefs are false.

Follow them, and you are simply led on a longer path to self discovery.

Love between humans; love from humans to all the other energy beings on this planet: animals, plants, inanimate objects; love between humans and all etheric beings; love from all other energy and etheric beings; love in time and space and matter; love as a way of being that we learn to inhabit more and more often, until one day, we just get it.

We just get that it’s all love.

Love’s the energy.
Love’s the Universe.
Love’s the particulate.
Love’s the reason.
Love’s the reality.

It’s a beautiful lesson.
The biggest lesson there is.

And it may take you this lifetime, and thousands more, to finally learn it.

We live, we die, we reincarnate, we live, we die…
​And in each new lifetime… we get to learn.

It’s here on earth that we can expand, really learn our stuff.

We learn on the earth plane through our fear, our shame, our self loathing, our pride, our judgment, our prejudice, our hatred, our anger, our bitterness, our sadness, our failure.

Each lesson of separation mastered helps us crack through to the fact that we’re really souls… that our true experience, our true reality is eternal, unlimited and infinite,

And when we get that? Well, that’s when things really start to change.

This idea that one day, we’ll be able to live forever?
That we’ll be immortal?
This is already true.
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We’re souls, infinite perfect Universes within an infinite perfect Universe.
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We enter each lifetime to be human, and to work on the same lesson that everyone else is here to work on: moving from separation to Oneness.

Before you learn to remember, it all seems very complicated.

Everyone in the world who hasn’t learned to remember yet is shouting at you that “this” is how it is, or “that” is how it needs to be.

When the truth of the soul’s lesson, and by soul we mean you, is simply to expand to the highest level it can reach.

As a human, you’re limited by your personality, and your body, and by the particular time, place, culture and surroundings you have chosen to be born into.

Yes, again… you chose.
You chose this adventure.

You chose this experience knowing full well that it was going to be challenging, and that the experience would bring you to certain lessons: survival, security, stability.

Or maybe you chose this experience because it was going to be easy: perhaps all the survival, security and stability was taken care of in this lifetime? So that you could move onto other lessons: love, consciousness, understanding your infinite nature?

The question is then: how far can you lift off from where you began?

If you’ve chosen a hard experience, what’s the farthest you can go from there?
If you’ve chosen an easy experience, what’s the farthest you can go from there?
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We come back to earth, over and over, to see how far we can go.

Choosing freedom
 
What we choose determines how we experience our life. 
 
As we journey on the path that is this lifetime, we come across forks in the roads, highways, byways, crossroads, roadblocks, switchbacks and hidden trails. 
 
There is a lot of terrain to navigate: rocks, boulders, mud, desert.
There are lots of beings to meet: nature helpers, mentors and guides, souls in human form. 
 
Every point of navigation offers choice. 
Every meeting offers choice.
We are offered all experiences as choice. 
 
The big decisions, the big crossroads on the path are often convergences. 
Convergences are when time, space and soul meet and the course of a lifetime shifts. 
 
Yet every micro decision, every brief rest stop or tiny rock on the path or whatever it is, these are also choice that alter our course. 
 
There is no fear here. 
We can’t journey wrong. 
 
No “bad” choices doom us. 
No “mistakes” curse us.
Nobody is keeping track of our “sins.”
There is no right way to navigate our path.
 
We have experiences, and we make choices that lead us to more experiences. 
 
If we like how that’s working, we continue. 
If we don’t like how that’s working, we change.  
As we become more aware, we choose to change a lot. 
 
This is the key: as we become more aware of ourselves as soul, our ego stops trying to run the show. 
 
Once we put the soul in charge, the ego starts relaxing. 
The ego starts relaxing, because it knows we are on track. 
It’s so easy, isn’t it? 
 
As we become more aware, we start noticing synchronicities. 
As we follow synchronicities we start living in Flow. 
As we start living in Flow, the ego relaxes. 

We are on track! 
We notice life feels easier! 
We notice we are suffering less!  
 
And, at a certain point, we transform. 
We start to believe that Flow is real. 
After several tussles to stay in control, ego finally lets go. 
 
Now, every choice that comes is seen not as a challenge but as an experience. 
We begin to live beyond ego.
 
Nowness gives us perspective. 
Oneness gives us perspective. 
 
After a while, we get used to seeing life this way.
The old way of living not longer seems valuable.
Ego needs us, but we don’t need ego! 
 
There is a releasing, a detaching. 
We get to choose. 
We can live in freedom, if we want to.

We are here to live, not to hide.

So there is another part to this: instead of refusing to learn lessons, because you are afraid of what might come…

You might choose to learn lessons quickly, so that you can go faster.
You might choose to learn how to spot a lesson as it arrives to you.
​You might choose to learn willingly, in trust that all is well.

Don’t resist! Don’t slink back in fear.
Learn, change, grow!

In this way, you will soon find yourself skipping ahead, to a different kind of reality.

You do not need to repeat kindergarten multiple times!
Do it once, and once only.
Get in there, open yourself up, throw off the shroud and let yourself learn.
Then, move on to the more interesting coursework of your soul.

The Universe will take you as fast and as far as you can go.
You can go much farther than you even dreamed.

If you want to be happy, let go of your need to repeat, repeat, repeat.
Let go of your need to resist, resist, resist.
Let go of your need to hide.
Instead, be brave.

See what needs to be learned… and learn it.
Allow what needs to change to change.

You can’t stop it anyway.
This is an infinite process.

Once you have learned a lesson, you don’t have to repeat it.
Once it’s learned, you’re free.

When you learn a lesson, such as standing up for yourself, respecting yourself, holding yourself most dear, loving yourself… the learning of this lesson often brings big changes.

A relationship may end.
​A job may end.
You might move.
Your lifestyle may change.

We know these changes will come, if we learn this lesson!

When we get afraid of change, then we tend to hang back in the back row, repeating and repeating the same thing.

We might attract relationships that are humiliating or abusive…and we stay in them.
We might go to jobs that are dull and boring… and we stay there.
We might live in places that don’t resonate with us… and we stay there.
We might have habits and addictions that keep us numb…and we continue them.

We refuse to learn the lesson, because we are afraid of change.
We repeat the lesson over and over, never learning it, because we are afraid of change.

And yet of course change is just how things are.

Learn the lesson or don’t learn the lesson.
But there is no escaping change.
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Relationships change.
Jobs change.
You will move.
You will live many different ways.
You will have many lifestyles.

Even if you try to pull the cocoon around you more tightly, wrap the shroud deeply around you and hide your head in its suffocating warmth… change happens.