The internet is filled with posts on how to stay on friendly terms with an ex.
It’s a nice idea, isn’t it?
But energetically speaking, when a relationship is complete, it’s time to let it go.
Now, you might be tempted to think that you can still be in contact with an ex, or stay in touch, or even still be friends.
But in terms of energy entanglement, it’s very confusing.
This is because if a relationship is karmically complete, yet still continues, the result is energetic chaos.
Every time you see or talk to or even think about your ex, you experience the reattaching of energy cords, and you create further karma with this person.
If you don’t get along with your ex, the situation can get very messy: you’re still attaching cords every time you think about him/her, argue with him/her, are upset about how he/she behaves.
You’re still attaching cords.
You’re still creating karma.
Energetically, you’re still in the relationship.
When you truly let go of an ex, there is no longer a trigger when you are in contact with him/her.
There aren’t any more disagreement besides the kind of difference of opinion you might have with any one.
When you let go of an ex, you aren’t afraid of him/her or angry or obsessed or jealous or sad…
Because it just doesn’t matter.
The karma is complete.
The energy is dissipated.
You’re no longer corded up.
You’re not longer each other’s destiny.
If you’ve broken up with someone, it may be that this is because you’ve learned all the karmic lessons you’ll need to learn together, or you may be back for round two (or three or four hundred!) in the next lifetime.
You might be done, or you might be done for this lifetime.
In either case, if you have an ex who’s still in your energy field, consider how this is still serving you.
Letting go means detaching in person and energetically.
See where you’re at, in the process.
P.S. For help releasing an ex, try our self-study course Heal Your Love & Relationship Karma.
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