Years ago, when I was newly out of the gates as an author, I had the Misbelief that I had to do it a particular way.
I had a very strong case of the “shoulds.” An author travels all over, right? So that’s what I “should do”. An author does expos and conferences, right? So that’s what I “should” do. An author sticks to one subject and doesn’t stray from it, right? So that’s what I “should” do. Um…. yeah.... well.... as you know, that didn’t work out. I am miserable in planes, trains and automobiles. I find the energy of expos overwhelming. And everybody knows I can’t stick to one subject... I'm interested in lots of ideas! With my terrible case of the “shoulds," I spent almost a decade trying to fit my very square peg into the very round hole we often think of as “author”, and of course none of it worked. We can only be who we are, because that’s the reason we’re here. We are not here to be someone we're not. We’re here to inhabit and embrace and own our beautiful uniqueness. We're here to be our selves. When I finally gave up all of those “shoulds” a few years back, my work immediately deepened and my understanding of why I am here grew exponentially. I can’t recommend this enough: letting go of all the rules of how how society says you “should” be. And just be who you really are. After all, that’s your purpose on this planet. In 2017, it would be amazing if we all let go of our “shoulds”, and just were who we really are? Much love, SARA P.S. Take a look at amazing books and ebooks for your journey here.
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2/1/2017 06:03:11 am
Sara, I'm so glad you are who you are! You help so many people and certainly turned my life around in such a positive way through your courses and books. I'm grateful that you gave up the "shoulds."
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Charlotte Peterman
2/1/2017 09:13:56 am
How beautiful!
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Sara
2/1/2017 10:31:19 am
Thank you, Charlotte!
Sara
2/1/2017 10:30:55 am
Thank you so much for your support. Tibby!
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Kim
2/1/2017 09:53:32 am
Completely relate and have been stricken with the "should' many times.
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kim
2/1/2017 09:56:01 am
Completely relate and have been stricken with the "should' many times.
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Sara
2/1/2017 10:33:58 am
Thank you for your comments, Kim!
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Michele
2/1/2017 10:15:37 am
And so it is Dear Sara! True words are naturally organic non gmo
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Sara
2/1/2017 10:34:34 am
Thank you, Michele!
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Debbie
2/1/2017 04:39:36 pm
Ahh, thank you, Sara, for opening that door. I am relieved and happy to follow :) I was reminded of this in a very strong way today....and your message was a beautiful affirmation much welcomed.
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Sara
2/3/2017 11:16:16 am
Yes. Just say no to "shoulds". Yes to responsibilities and commitments, but no to "shoulds" that aren't really ours.
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Thank you Sara for this inspiring and enlightened wisdom. Letting go of all the shoulds in my life, is a great lesson that you always teach me and continue to model for me. I'm eternally grateful to you for lighting the way for me.
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Sara
2/3/2017 11:17:10 am
Thank you, Ruth. It is very easy to be pressured by dominant culture, by our past upbringing, all of those ways group thought affect us. And yet, we are souls, each here on our unique journey toward Oneness and Light.
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