It is really a pleasure to read your comments about the clients posted to your website. It makes me to urge to contact you for seeking an answer.
What you said is true. Sometimes we will sense we are going to meet our soul mate soon and we will seek the path to meet them. I sensed he was there in my life soon last year during August 2014 and I tried to seek advice from an astrologer in my city. He asked me to do some rituals to make my love life flourish and I did. It really happens and it was amazing!
I met him through social media and we were happy chatting with each other for almost three months. We never meet and we tried to arrange for date and there is always block as we were busy with work. We always having intuitive communication and he can finished my sentence without I speak!
Unfortunately he suddenly distant without any last words and I was depressed. I tried to contact him few times but no answer at all till now. I tried to move on and meet and date other online friends but it seems not going well.
I really tired and I deserve for a happy love life and I confused why he distant. Please guide me here and your help are much appreciated! I really hope he can reconnect with me or I hope my love life is easy and can find my second soul mate again!
Thank you in advance— Confused Gemini Girl, Trista
You are right to think that you can sense when you will meet a soul mate; if we are aware and paying attention to everything, every little thing, we can easily know when a person who is important will arrive into our lives.
That said... there are three different kinds of soul mates. They all show up to help us learn our karmic or soul lessons in this lifetime.
The first type of soul mate is the person where karma is instantly resolved: you meet very quickly, your karma is resolved almost immediately, and you move on: you have no need to have any other reaction, because your karma is complete.
The second type of soul mate is the person you have active karma with, and you can't resolve it: you meet, you have a big feeling about them, and then you have a lot of attraction and triggers and stuff to work out: some of it good, some of it bad. However, over time, you realize that it's not going to work out in this lifetime. At that point, you can either stay with them in fear of change, or you can leave and see what else life has in store for you.
The third type of soul mate, the true partner, is the person you work on karmic lessons with over time: you meet, you have a big feeling about them, and then you have a lot of attraction and triggers ands tuff to work out... and you WORK IT OUT. This soul and your soul have the ability to learn and resolve karmic lessons over time. It might not be easy at every moment, but there is cooperation and a commitment to learning together. This is the soul mate you can be in a long term relationship or marriage with.
The soul mate you encountered, Trista, was the second type. One of the biggest warning signs or red flags that a soul mate connection is not going to work out, is if it starts and continues as a distance relationship.
By distance, it could mean you live far away. But it could also be that the relationship is mostly by text or email or phone or social media; never in person. Distance and electronic relationships aren't real relationships. They're just distractions, a kind of addiction.
In order to have a real, tantric, involved, true soul mate relationship with someone, you're going to need to have a lot of face and body time with that person. In person, many many many times. Getting to know the person, not the front or facade of the person.
If you want the third type of soul mate relationship, the true partner, you're going to need to get very clear on who you are, what you will and won't accept. And you're going to have to keep rejecting lesser soul matings, until the Universe knows you are serious about meeting a person who is a true match to you: a person who will step up and commit to all of you: the good, the bad, the in progress.
You might like my audio course Call in Your Beloved with Ease for some help working through this.
It's absolutely possible to have a true partnership, but it will take some work, boundaries and a whole lot of self love.
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