I met this guy a year ago, and he lives in another town about 30 minutes away. I see him on the weekends, but sometimes he says he is too busy, and I have the feeling that maybe he's seen someone else. I don't know what to do. I'm not happy with the relationship, but I am worried I will be alone. I am 38 and I have one daughter who is 4. —Trish
It's time to face your fear.
A relationship is either stuck or going forward, karmically. Your relationship is so stuck it's not even moving. I don't sense much between you at all, except for the phsyical interaction. There's not even much energy in the relationship in terms of friendship or support.
Also the guides say that this man is not particularly safe for your daughter—there is sticky energy showing up, and she may be at risk from abuse from him, either physical or emotional.
Trish, you aren't dependent on this man; you're free to go. It's time to decide that you want more, to end this relationship, and face the fears about being alone. This next year will be an amazing time of growth for you, if you choose to face the fear.
Life is about learning, about evolving, about becoming a conscious being. Don't hold on to false ideas of security, such as this guy. Let go, move forward as a Divine being.
You may find my self-study course Call in Your Beloved with Ease useful at this time, to help you figure out what you're really looking for.
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